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Reference Request and Reference Prep Kit

Decision tree

Ask well and brief the people who vouch for you.

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I need references for my job search. The job: [TARGET_ROLE]. Potential references: [LIST_OF_PEOPLE_AND_HOW_I_KNOW_THEM]. Achievements I want them to be able to speak about: [ACHIEVEMENTS].

Create:
1. A decision tree for choosing references: if a person supervised me directly in the last three years, then rank them first; if the relationship is more than five years old, then use only if they remember specific work; if the person is a friend, then skip unless there is no one else. Apply it to my list and tell me my best three.
2. A request message for each type (former manager, colleague, client) of under 100 words, asking permission, not assuming it, and offering an easy way to decline.
3. A one-page briefing to send after they agree: the role, the three strengths to speak to with a short reminder of the project for each, the likely questions, and my deadline.
4. A thank-you note and an update message after the job decision.

Keep tone warm and respectful of their time.

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